Reached for: Okra
“I live in my head, where things make sense and nothing can catch me feeling.”
It shows up as retreat into the intellect, a super-mentalistic living-in-the-head that keeps feeling at a managed distance and everything under cognitive control, developed to survive an emotionally dysfunctional family. The thinking is genuinely able and it is also a wall against sensation. What it asks for is to let one feeling arrive before it has been explained.
Sherlock Holmes, all luminous reason and cold method, who kept the whole messy business of feeling filed away as a distraction from the work. The form implies a task: to let something be felt before it is solved.
- Essence
- The Sealed
- Rule
- If I stay in my head, the feelings can't reach me, and I stay in control.
- Substance / Activity
- Intellect, analysis, cognitive control
- Archetype
- Sherlock Holmes
- Emotional theme
- Feeling-avoidance managed by the intellect
- Behavioural pattern
- Super-mentalistic feeling-avoidance and cognitive control
- Family dynamic
- An emotionally dysfunctional family
- Core wound
- If I stay in my head, the feelings can't reach me, and I stay in control.
- Exit
- Letting one feeling arrive before it has been explained.
What is the "Reached for: Okra" pattern?
It shows up as retreat into the intellect, a super-mentalistic living-in-the-head that keeps feeling at a managed distance and everything under cognitive control, developed to survive an emotionally dysfunctional family. The thinking is genuinely able and it is also a wall against sensation. What it asks for is to let one feeling arrive before it has been explained.
What does "Reached for: Okra" sound like when it shows up?
I live in my head, where things make sense and nothing can catch me feeling.
What is the archetypal form of "Reached for: Okra"?
Sherlock Holmes, all luminous reason and cold method, who kept the whole messy business of feeling filed away as a distraction from the work. The form implies a task: to let something be felt before it is solved.
This is a pattern. Not a verdict.
It appears in many lives.