Carried: Birth (Dry; Due to prematurely breaking waters)
“I was rushed out unwelcomed, wanted over and done with, and I've carried that unwanted feeling from the first breath.”
It shows as the body's record of an arrival met with 'let's just get it over,' a hurried, unwelcomed emergence carrying forward an intense ambivalence about being had at all, replaying how the person was met as an infant. The reflex is to expect one's coming to be an imposition. What it asks for is to let one arrival, somewhere, be genuinely welcomed.
Perez, the twin who forced his way out first in a hard birth, the breach whose very name marked the rupture of his coming. The form implies a task: to let the forced, unwelcomed emergence be met, this time, with welcome.
- Essence
- Wrong at the Root
- Rule
- I was rushed out unwelcomed, so I've carried the feeling of being unwanted from the first breath.
- Body zone
- A hurried, unwelcomed birth
- Archetype
- Perez
- Emotional theme
- Ambivalence at being had; a sense of being unwanted from the first
- Behavioural pattern
- Expecting one's arrival to be an imposition to be got over with
- Family dynamic
- Being met, as an infant, with ambivalence and a wish to have it over
- Core wound
- I was rushed out unwelcomed, so I've carried the feeling of being unwanted from the first breath.
- Exit
- Letting one arrival, somewhere, be genuinely welcomed.
What is the "Carried: Birth (Dry; Due to prematurely breaking waters)" pattern?
It shows as the body's record of an arrival met with 'let's just get it over,' a hurried, unwelcomed emergence carrying forward an intense ambivalence about being had at all, replaying how the person was met as an infant. The reflex is to expect one's coming to be an imposition. What it asks for is to let one arrival, somewhere, be genuinely welcomed.
What does "Carried: Birth (Dry; Due to prematurely breaking waters)" sound like when it shows up?
I was rushed out unwelcomed, wanted over and done with, and I've carried that unwanted feeling from the first breath.
What is the archetypal form of "Carried: Birth (Dry; Due to prematurely breaking waters)"?
Perez, the twin who forced his way out first in a hard birth, the breach whose very name marked the rupture of his coming. The form implies a task: to let the forced, unwelcomed emergence be met, this time, with welcome.
This is a pattern. Not a verdict.
It appears in many lives.